answered question 9/11/2010 How do you move on after being abused, i was a victim of child abuse and then i was abused by a girlfriend in adult life. Memories of the abuse is all that fills my head, how can i make myself forget and just get on with some kind of life? Seek council from a higher power. 1 Peter 5:7 Cast your cares on him for he cares for you. The Lord is there for you at the call of his name all you have to do is trust and believe.