Listen to her and care what she is saying. Tell her that you care and that you love her.

Most girls like a hot guy with a nice body ( abbs they want to lick) and that wont lie to them. They know they can trust them. And green eyes on boys means loyal blue means horibble. (according to some psychics)

Find good friends that will acually listen to you. If they don't try writing down what  you are feeling and just keep it in a box. Pray. Pray your heart out. He will listen. No matter what religion you are. He will listen and answer.

Its like flirting.