Well there should be a freindship bassis on love so they are equal
Well if shes making it hard thats a comprimise you both have to live with talk to him through email txt phone got to his house if his mom is really getting in the way make excuses to go somewhere to see him without her knowing
What kind of crane
get a counturweight cran the short end has lots of weight
and the long end picks things up ad the counter balamckeeps it from falling