NO NO NO, how many people just don't know what they are reading,  Look, I'll say again to you, read the divorce papers very carfully.  And you'll find a way.

Yes you can, and that can happen ever before the court hearing, Like I just told another dude, read between the lines of your dicorce papers that you have to send him.

Oh about the same distance as it is between your left ear and right ear lol.

Yep, unless he done something your not telling us about with his finger, but a Dr can check that out.