paloma barragan answered question 4/12/2010 My Boyfriend Talks About My Butt, A Lot, How Hot It Is, And When He Walks By Me He Stares Longer Than He Should, Grabs, Slaps, All Those Things. Why Is He So Obsessed? Is This Normal? I think he is obsessed because that part is the part that most guys look at so its not really an obsession. I think it is normal for him to do those things but as longest he doesnt do it in public!!!!!!