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It causes adrenaline.  Adrenaline is "fight or flight" mode.  So when you are playing the games you get excited, mad, and distracted.  All these things affect your adrenaline.  Adrenaline raises your blood pressure and heart rate.  It does this because it is your body's way of trying to protect itself.  Hence the name "Fight or … Read more
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Just let her feel what she needs to feel.  EVEN if you don't agree with what she should be feeling at that time.  Just listen.. And don't take it personally if she doesn't want to be held, touched, or talked to.. It's normal and it has nothing to do with you.  It's just the process.