I am 12 and I have a boyfriend and I think if you want a boyfriend you can have 1. I did and do and at first my parents did not know I had one till my mom read a text and NEVER do that. But I think its ok

You should call her or talk to her in person

Yes it is! Maybe in another place it isn't but united states yes

Hey I'm 12 and just got my first boyfriend in December 2009 and yes I love him and I'm pretty sure he loves me. We used 2 text and say love you when we said bye :D