answered 10/4/2009 How Big Is The Average Man's Penis? 30 yr old male here 2 in soft 6 in hard 5.75 around I'm also a gay male and I can tell you from what I have seen most guys are 3 to 4 in soft and 5 in to 7 in hard and 4.5 in to 5 in around but I have seen a few 8 … Read more