stelly answered question 9/25/2009 I Don't Like My Son's Girlfriend. She Is Very Needy And Controlling. How Can I Get Along With Her And Not Alienate My Son? I tried to get along with my sons girl friend, I have know her for 13 years and my son said he knows what she is with, but loves her, she has been with other men, she has slept with my daughters boyfriend, my son is 42 and his girl friend is 39