sarah wilkinson answered question 8/5/2009 So Me And My Boyfriend Had A Huge Fight And He Hasn't Decided If We Should Stay Together Or Break Up. We Both Love Each Other,we Fight About Small Dumb Things. Should We Stay Together Or What? I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 20.we argue over stupid stuff.we argue over stuff that makes me want to leave him but we just get closer.how old are you and your boyfriend?