Emma Tirrell answered question 7/6/2009 My Mom Wont Let Me Talk To My Friend Online Because He's Older Than Me She Thinks He's Going To Be A Killer Thats Going To Kidnap Me Just Because Im 13 Should I Keep Talking To Him Secretly? Help? Well do you know him. Like from school?...if you know him personally then you should have a right to talk to him. But if you just found him online hes probably not who you think he is.