You can't but I think you might be able to but I do not know because my freind really hassn't told me how to either

It could be that you keep pulling out the game with out turning it off or you take out the controller out of the system

Bring her some flowers,chocolate,her favorite music,or even ask would you like some help on your math home work* *if she has any home work

I say look at the eye color
the hair color
or ask what is there favorite item