answered 4/30/2009 Is My Fiance's Ex-wife Entitled To Any Of His Pension After He Passes Away Or Retires? She Has Been Remarried For At Least 8 Years, Or Longer. We Are Getting Married This July 2009. Am I entitled to any of my husbands union benefits pension, 401k, retirement, health insurance after we divorce. We have been married for 18 years and he has been in local 3 operating engineers union for the last 10 years.