There are a number of GI infections associated with HIV that can lead to blood in the stool

He (God) has favoured me/favours me (i.e. With a child) It is of Hebrew derivation (Channah). The mother of the prophet Samuel had this name.

He (God) has favoured me/favours me (i.e. With a child)     Hebrew derivation        Mother of Samuel (Channah)

I think you can suggest donations in lieu of gifts but to be more assertive is somewhat presumptive