There are a number of GI infections associated with HIV that can lead to blood in the stool
He (God) has favoured me/favours me (i.e. With a child) It is of Hebrew derivation (Channah). The mother of the prophet Samuel had this name.
He (God) has favoured me/favours me (i.e. With a child) Hebrew derivation Mother of Samuel (Channah)
I think you can suggest donations in lieu of gifts but to be more assertive is somewhat presumptive