answered question 4/6/2009 I Finally Got Ahold To My Boyfriends Cellphone And Read His Text Messages. I Knew It, He Is Cheating. I Found Two Different Girls Numbers And Messages. Also Messages To And From His Babies Mommas. Should I Confront Him Or Cheat Back? Confront him. You'll have power over him because he will know you know and can't wriggle out of it. Cheating will not solve anything. If not make things worse and give you a worse reputation and him to have a reason to carry on cheating.