Don't ask her. Just sit, talk and flirt with her and see her reaction. Then move closer to her. Lean in towards her but NEVER just go for it. If she meets you half way, or she doesn't move then she will kiss you

You should not write a letter to the judge. It's going to be like your looking for pity, which may make you look guilty, depending on who the judge is. Not a good idea, leave it up to the lawyer because you don't want to accidentally say anything that may worsen the situation

There are symptoms such as, constant urination, nausea, vomiting, morning sickness, no appetite, increased appetite, or weird cravings. But not everyone has symptoms during pregnancy. Therefore, you should take a home pregnancy test, or go to a doctor