I think maybe you should talk about how hard it is and how much its hurts then talk about how much it feels good to be loved by someone

He still likes you that's why .....and he probably feels bad for dumping you and he thinks it was a mistake .....so now he's trying to show you that he still wants you with out asking you out

You can make him feel bad by telling him that he hurts your feelings all the time then hell feel bad and say sorry and feel bad because he hurts you