Exactly. Like once someone has been bitten, he'll think twice about trying to pet that dog the next time.

Right now that does seem like a pretty significant age difference - I probably wouldn't go for someone three years younger than me right now, and I'm almost 18 myself. Why don't you look around for someone a bit closer to where you are (in age and maturity)? If you really like her, then maybe … Read more

Tell us about her. What does she like? But most girls like guys who just aren't afraid to be themselves - I personally go for guys who are nice, but that doesnt always apply. Good luck!