I say get a divorce you only live once and you will regret it if you don't but if your husband still loves you let him down gently because if you stay with him you will end up breaking up anyway because you won't be happy which will make him unhappy and cause arguments!
It's never advised to mix different species of any snake reptile or amphibian its not something thats easy, just because they have similar needs doesn't mean they can be kept together it takes good knowledge of your pets careful monitoring and a good solid pinch of luck not something for a newbie. So be careful!
Have sex in the middle day of your period cycle (the 14th day) and try a different position when having sex, and try eat more healthily that can help!