brian smith answered question 7/29/2011 Me & my bf broke up 4 a whole month and now we r back 2gether he was a virgin before and i just found out yesterday he lost it 2 the girl he started dating after me, should i ignore it or what? I thought he would of lost it to me since we are inlove Listen he didnt cheat on you... You both were broken up... If you 2 were still together then that will be called cheating