At that age kids want you to be in control! If they cry when they wake up put them back in bed.. Because they're still tired. We as adults wake up at night and we go back to sleep. Kids wake up still tired.
Who cares if your gay or not... The way society is ..Its more common than the average person knows.... But do agree with user zuhail the longer you stay with it the harder it is to stop the behavior as far a mental.... YOU WILL STILL THINK ABOUT IT !!! Often