Try to make him feel like if he wants it more then you do, play with so you can get his attention when he is tired

Thats bad because he might say that because your younger and maybe better looking then his wife and your cousin that's family you should do that because then when you look at them you are going to feel a strange feeling because he says he loves you but still with her.

Tell him to do it when a girl tells the guy he will do it more often

Make her feel comfortable and not feel out of place and  she is in the correct spot

Talk to him serious talk and tell him to be open up to you why are you doing this are you not having sexual experience yet or no because that might be the reason.

For a guy it can be a turn on because he knows you will let him explore on you or in other meaning be erotic with you

I don't think women want to them to be filmed because They might think that you might use it against them or post it on enternet

It depends how close you are to them because some girls grind or some guys are just excited it's hormones or virgins

Change the mistakes you did before and make her feel why she fell in love with you in the first place

To do something exotic and do something that you wouldn't do but only special times only

Doing more things you don't do and make yourself attractive to your man and attract him more than you normally do 

Maybe a couple of months or a couple of years if you both go through some tuff times and still stick together

Well it depends some guys just like girls with big boobs some guys don't care and that is how you notice if he likes you for you or your boobs but for me I don't care as long as I am feeling her and she is feeling me