Lala Parker answered question 1/14/2011 What is the average age to lose your virginity? Im twelve and my best friend (who's a guy) keeps pressuring me to lose the big v to him. How old is your "best friend"? Real friends don't keep pressuring you to do something you don't want to do. Maybe you need a new friend! And at 12, I think its best to hold on to your v-card. Good luck!