Rebekah Gardner answered question 1/14/2011 What is the average age to lose your virginity? Im twelve and my best friend (who's a guy) keeps pressuring me to lose the big v to him. I'm 13 and I'm not even thinking about it. I say your way 2 young. Wait untill it is legal 4 you, then if you love some 1 enough reconsider it then, but certainly not now