Dont let a male force you into doing anything you dont want to do, it sets the path for many struggles in the future. Be comfortable with who you are and dont so comb to peer pressure!
All of the anger is rooted down to the up bringing of the adaults. Somewhere deep down in their subconscious realm of the mind they have a deep seeded anger towards something else and in return it effect their relationships with other people. Including their families. It sad and true all at once.
You may only claim a child at the end of the year in which the child was born. And every year there after until the child has reached the age of 18.