Adultery confuses the everloving out of me. It is so common and has so many passages in the Bible written about it that you know it is an ordinary state of affairs! But Why? What on earth would make people do that! Are they weak, or just doing what comes naturally? Personally I think adultery … Read more

Writing is documentation. Speaking, with eye contact, is communication. Why not propose in person and read the body language instead of the English language. Unless you have a degree in English, writing it down is hard to convey what your voice inflection, your posture, the look on your face conveys.

The difference between boys and men is easy: Boys take, Men give. The difference between girls and women is the same: Girls take, women give. Now if a boy marries a woman, the marriage is great for him--he takes and she gives! Vice versa with girls and Men too! Marriage is for grownups: When a … Read more

Britney Spears buys friends. How well is her life going? Money is only a medium of exchange of value for value, so the real question to ask yourself is, what do you value? If you had money would you spend it being with friends, or things? I think your answer to yourself will be revealing.

I think you are grieving the loss of something that was good. Time and distance are the best medicine. And also get re-acquainted with yourself--remember that person that he was firstly attracted to? Go find her and take it down the road.

Depending on the ages and sizes of the people, often 1/2 lb per person is very close. If they are big eaters a bit more.

In this situation someone has got to be the Grownup: I doubt if the "boy" who is going to be a father is adult enough to realize he's created Life, a new innocent baby, with a life long set of needs and obligations. I hope you are. You see, from here on in, it should … Read more

Grieving over a lost loved one is necessary to help get past it and get on with your life. If you grieve too long it becomes a problem for you and is not what the loved one would want for you. Someone famous once said, "let the dead bury the dead, rise up and follow … Read more

Don't confuse being a photographer with being a professional photographer. They both take pictures but one of these two runs a small business. To do this for money you have to know something about running a business: Taxes, accounting, personnel, services needed, marketing & advertising, dealing with the public. To be a photographer all you … Read more

Consider that there are 4 basic parts of you: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional and Spiritual. One of those parts, Emotional, can't let go. The others can. Use those other sides of your Being to gang-up on the emotional side, and drive on. When we get into crisis we get paralysed by emotions, and prevent ourselves from … Read more

Money has no value. It is only a medium of exchange. The real test in here is how society values your labours and thoughts, and what you value. Then you make the exchange with currency or money. Some people value a rare stamp worth thousands, others a trip to Florida. The money is the same. … Read more

Answer this one question: "What is money?" Suppose I am writing a dictionary and come to this word, how would you answer it? Most people strive all their lives and careers after money, getting it and spending it, and they actually do not even know what money is! In case you were wondering, it is … Read more

I get the best results when I buy the same brand of paper as the printer I am using. After that, shiny or semi-matte works.

All this is true. An easier way: If you run into a bear and climb a tree, it's a black bear if he climbs up after you and eats you, it's a grizzly bear if he knocks the tree down and eats you. ;+)

The very best life you can live is inside a good marriage, where both care and love each other. You have a witness to your Life, you have double the friends, interests, and family. But. The second very best life you can live is Single. It is not a bad marriage or a bad relationship, … Read more

To love someone you need to feel loved in the way you internalize it. Men feel love differently that women and vice versa. Women feel loved and appreciated when they feel safe and secure from the actions of their man. Men feel loved by women when there is coordination of effort and physical contact more … Read more

The Law and School System are on your side. You don't have to stand alone. Call in the System and shut this character down. You do this by sticking to the facts, don't make it worst that it was. Then you have just saved two lives, yours--and his. Because he's headed down a hard road … Read more

Remorse means you a trying to say sorry for something you know you did that was not right. Begin by describing exactly what you did. Then say that you know you hurt that person. Then say that it hurts you to have done it. End by asking for forgiveness, preferably meeting with the person at … Read more

Meet with him face to face in a public place so it can't get out of hand. Be friendly. And ask him what happened. If he has a reason that you can believe, laugh it off and start again. But if your tummy tells you he's cooked up a story, maybe he just isn't that … Read more

Sounds like he could use some hugs and kisses too. He needs to get medical attention from a dentist for his gum/teeth disease. Fix the reason and the rest just might follow. Supporting him while he is getting his severe halitosis fixed might bring you both closer together. 12 years is too much to toss.