I'm a fun loving mum who puts my son and my families needs first in all aspects of the matter.....when you get caught up in today's hype of "you gota be this" "you have to be that"..does that not put more stress and pressure on you in society today...it's not as if the world has alot of fairness and justice in it nowadays....so start from what matter's most to you 1st..From experience and practise having a high paying job does help financially yep I agree with that..BUT is it not more important to raise our children in a justified way where how we treat and teach them matters most for their future and ours...you be the judge!