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My BF went to Vegas this last weekend. He started a fight with me right before he left about a phone charger. Found out his ex was in Vegas Thursday and he got there the day after on Saturday. Do I believe him when he says he was out there alone?

Drill deeper than that. What was the reason for him to head out to Vegas in the first place. I'm not telling you to distrust your man but at the same same time, I don't want you to be fooled. Try to establish link between him being there and her as well. It might be … Read more

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Im not able to say everything bc of limits. My friend feels unloved in her family. I thought she should talk to her parents but she didn't want to,so I thought that maybe if I anonymously told her parents things would be ok. But is that really smart?

As her friend, you might think that this might be a good idea but rather, let her do it herself. You talking about these issues might be startling for them and they might not even take it seriously if they are of the ignorant kind which i hope they aren't. Instead, if it's possible for … Read more

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How does one remain optimistic about love and relationships in the face of repeated failures?

It all depends upon how much you need it. It's never easy to face and live through a failure in this part of life. Every time you fall in love, it feels the same way it did before and every time when it breaks, the pain is ever more intense.

Some people grow strong and matured … Read more