Mary Silverhone
Mary Silverhone thanked Anonymous' answer
So, my son tried to kiss a girl (I have nothing wrong with this) and he hit puberty when he was 9, and he's never avoided girls, even when he was little. Is that a chemical imbalance?

Many girls are maturing early too. It's been credited to hormones in our food supply, esp beef, chicken and pork products, among other things. 

Stop trying to find something wrong with your son and start talking sex and safe sex and protection. Playing the denial game will only isolate and alienate your son and … Read more

Mary Silverhone
Mary Silverhone thanked Bikergirl Anonymous' answer
I feel like the worst parent ever, yesterday my son, and what I thought was a friend (she was a girl) went to the movies and they went to kiss and I stopped them, i just panicked. and now he won't talk to me please help? (He's 13).

I also think what you did wasn't neccesarily a 'bad' thing .. Sure it may have embarassed him, and explain to him that you really didn't mean to put him on the spot .. but .. That is because he is lacking a better level of judgement about timing. 

Perhaps this is a time to … Read more

Mary Silverhone
Mary Silverhone thanked Anonymous' answer
I feel like the worst parent ever, yesterday my son, and what I thought was a friend (she was a girl) went to the movies and they went to kiss and I stopped them, i just panicked. and now he won't talk to me please help? (He's 13).

The same thing happened to me when my daughter at age 14 went to the movies with her friend, and it turned out to be a  double date that she kept secret from me. I went to pick her up early and there were 2 boys and  2 girls and I had a fit. Mostly … Read more