Joy Ryder
Joy Ryder answered charmaine saunders' question
My Husband's Mother Is Very Dominating And He's Always Been Under Her Thumb. We've Only Been Married A Few Months But Already, I Can Feel The Presence Of The Problem. This Is Not A Typical Mother-in-law Matter As I Like Her Well Enough As A Person. But I'm Feeling A Bit Caught In The Middle. He Complains To Me All The Time That She Wants Him To Do Things For Her. I Tell Him He Should Be More Honest And Assertive But He Says It's Very Hard After A Lifetime's Pattern Of Just Giving In. When He Does Stand His Ground, I'm Sure She Thinks I'm Responsible For His New Attitude. Maybe Marriage Has Just Given Him The Courage To Stand Up More For Himself But I Feel That He And I Are Just Starting Out And I Don't Want This Cloud Over Our Lives. What Can I Do, If Anything?

Do you and him live with his mother?  Is it her house?  If so you need your own place..  As for mom-n-law: why is she so focused on just her son?  

Isn't there other family? Or a significant other in life to help her do things like chores and errands or just be around for some … Read more

Joy Ryder
Joy Ryder answered Anonymous' question
My cat is still barley eating and is just sleeping. He moves from two diffrent spots but just sleeps and I can't afford to take him to the vet. Also he can't keep his head up even if I lift it. There is some kind of yellow substance coming from his butt?

It could be so many things.  He must have water if not food.  Even if you have to bottle feed it to him.  Also you can give him kitten formula  or even baby formula .  

It makes a good meal replacer and is full of nutrients and vitamins your kitty needs.  Also pedialite or even Gatorade  … Read more