Valerie Proudmama
Valerie Proudmama thanked Anonymous' answer

I would be concerned, yes. I have raised a daughter and two sons  and I would have definitely found a time where things were nice and quiet in the evening and bring it up. Sometimes , it is hormones and it will pass (meaning she may have not written it a few weeks ago) but … Read more

Valerie Proudmama
Valerie Proudmama thanked Didge Doo's answer

There are two stages and both are important: Coping with the initial shock, and handling a difficult situation that simply isn't going to go
away.

Mrs Didge and I had to face this in 1991 when our oldest son (then aged 30) told me he wanted to be a woman. I managed to stay non-commital at … Read more