I agree highly with talking to someone trust worthy. Talking about what you are feeling opens the mind to ask yourself why am I thinking/ feeling this way without over analyzing the situation to the point that your are on your bed with the door locked, having the music turned up so no one can … Read more
When you orgasm there are rhythmic contractions of your pelvic muscles. When you hold your pee you are contracting those same muscles. I imagine that is why it feels good to you.