I think you have the right to see your child, and I think you should talk to the relatives or a good friend of her's and let them help you. And you two should make back up because there will be a child coming into you and your ex's life!
I have tryed to get her to work things out and tryed to talk to her best friend and her mom but nuthing has worked. I'm going back to be there when our baby is born but Idk when she will go into laber or if she will let me see our baby.