LeonaBanks Gray
LeonaBanks Gray answered Anonymous' question
My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I tell him no and he gets mad at me. What should I do?

If his intentions are to stay with you for a while or permanently he wouldn't pressure you to do something you are not ready to do.  You should have a whole life time together, what's the rush. If he don't plan on hitting it and quitting it, he wouldn't be in such a rush.  Truth … Read more

LeonaBanks Gray
LeonaBanks Gray commented on Maggie Lopes' answer
My Husband's Mother Is Very Dominating And He's Always Been Under Her Thumb. We've Only Been Married A Few Months But Already, I Can Feel The Presence Of The Problem. This Is Not A Typical Mother-in-law Matter As I Like Her Well Enough As A Person. But I'm Feeling A Bit Caught In The Middle. He Complains To Me All The Time That She Wants Him To Do Things For Her. I Tell Him He Should Be More Honest And Assertive But He Says It's Very Hard After A Lifetime's Pattern Of Just Giving In. When He Does Stand His Ground, I'm Sure She Thinks I'm Responsible For His New Attitude. Maybe Marriage Has Just Given Him The Courage To Stand Up More For Himself But I Feel That He And I Are Just Starting Out And I Don't Want This Cloud Over Our Lives. What Can I Do, If Anything?
He should ALWAYS care for his mother the way that he does. Women come and go, but mom will always be there.
LeonaBanks Gray
LeonaBanks Gray commented on Maggie Lopes' answer
My Husband's Mother Is Very Dominating And He's Always Been Under Her Thumb. We've Only Been Married A Few Months But Already, I Can Feel The Presence Of The Problem. This Is Not A Typical Mother-in-law Matter As I Like Her Well Enough As A Person. But I'm Feeling A Bit Caught In The Middle. He Complains To Me All The Time That She Wants Him To Do Things For Her. I Tell Him He Should Be More Honest And Assertive But He Says It's Very Hard After A Lifetime's Pattern Of Just Giving In. When He Does Stand His Ground, I'm Sure She Thinks I'm Responsible For His New Attitude. Maybe Marriage Has Just Given Him The Courage To Stand Up More For Himself But I Feel That He And I Are Just Starting Out And I Don't Want This Cloud Over Our Lives. What Can I Do, If Anything?
I think it's great that a son loves and cares for his mother the way he does. I hope and pray he NEVER changes that. Most women come on the scene and think they can knock the mother out of the box. He has a right to make sure his mother [the one who was … Read more