Spirit Sparks answered Alexis Marie's question 6/22/2012 I have a friend that had a bad life growing up. We're 13 now and when she was younger her dad used to molest her and rape her. She wants to know if she's still considered a virgin because it was against her will and she was only 6. Is she or not? She needs to start over. She needs to tell herself mentally that she IS a virgin. Even if she isn't physically.