candi bomm answered Sita kitta's question 1/25/2012 I got out of an abusive relationship about a month ago. I cried for two weeks, now I think I'm healing. Only thing is that I'm terribly lonely. I don't go to clubs,I'm 20.I feel so desperate trying to find a boyfriend? Maybe you need a break from relationships and get to know yourself. The dating scene will always be there. Try introductions from mutual friends if all else fails.