I try to talk to them about it but they would ignore me. then later on I try again they said something that hurt. 4 days later they apologize and said they were ready to talk, but I was still hurt and I ignore them to keep myself calm. I messaged them apologizing for ignoring them and why, and if we can talk about it. Now they are ignoring me, I really need to talk to them and put everything in the past and work on our relationship. I don't understand why they are ignoring me, when I didn't cause this problems.

thanks for anyone answering.