Edit : I think you guys are misunderstanding... I don't bother him when he's out, and I don't ask him to not go. I don't even communicate to him that I "dislike" when he leaves because I KNOW that he needs a social life. Upset isn't being used in place of "angry". I'm in a new place without any friends and I don't know what to do with myself while he's away. Don't assume to tell me I don't belong in my relationship. I'm just asking for advice to avoid getting sad when he leaves. Thank you.