Ancient One

I have done the research and heard all the pros and cons but I'd like to hear from Blurit. What is your opinion concerning home schooling?

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Skip  Gentry Profile
Skip Gentry answered

I've never known anyone who was home schooled. IMO, I think they should go to school. Not only do kids learn their studies, they learn how to interact with others.

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Darik Majoren answered

My concern is that I do not think the child can reach a realistic social experience from being "Home Schooled".

I think there is a real need for friendly competition, as well as a random (uncontrolled) events to shape decision making skills for a world without the "Parental Plastic Bubble".  I think the social interactions children get is just as important as the level of education they are exposed to.

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Yin And Yang answered

Ancient One, let me tell you this. I have had the honor of having my children... In two different centuries, two different decades. I have watched the school system fall horribly through out the years. Here is my info for you:

First born in 1996. Her second day of kindergarten was September 11, 2001. (This gives you a time frame) With her she went through public school and graduated with her class. But by highschool things were getting real... Questionable.

Second born 2003. She went to public school but Yang and I already decided I would home school our children as soon as they hit Jr. High. Our thoughts were there was too much emphasis on promiscuity and not enough on education. The transgender bathroom law going into effect sealed the deal. I have been home schooling her for 4 years now.

Third born 2007. The plan WAS to let her go though elementary like her sister did then homeschool her in 6th grade. Til the school decided to PROTECT the bully whom I personally WITNESSED him hit my daughter in the back of her head. And the school had the nerve to say when I complained about the bullying in their school "we didn't see it so we can't do anything." Well @$$holes when an ADULT witnesses it they do nothing either! This is my first year home schooling her.

Fourth born 2014. He is not in school yet. He will be homeschooled from kindergarten on. This one will not be seeing a public school class room.

This is what goes on in public schools... I had one child bullied they did NOTHING. I had one child sexually assaulted at the age of 13 and the school wanted to shut us up quietly because the pervert just turned 18 and the assault happened ON campus! They blamed my daughter because she had big boobs and said basically she was asking for it. (God I wish I was the beast I am now back then! I would have eaten that school for breakfast and spit it out!!) I had another child get made fun of because she didn't know what pole dancing meant... In 3rd grade. JUST to name a few.

I have watched the demise of the public school system through out the years. It didn't matter if I was a classroom mom helper or completely leave them be. It didn't matter that I taught them morals and "don't hit a child." Because it doesn't matter either way for public school officials. We don't have to worry about gangs being in school anymore because public schools are now shot up by estranged ex husband's who shoot their wife who happens to be a teacher... In her SPECIAL NEEDS CLASS ROOM FULL OF 1st through 3rd graders! I got a call from the principal which I kept... She was informing all the parents that a child was hit by a car today after school so please stick to the designated places to park and tell your kids to stay in the yellow zone. Just to name a few!

Wanna know what has happened SINCE home schooling? BOTH my kids are working their grade level... But it is equivalent to 2-3 grades higher then what public school teaches! They don't give kids the credit or potential of their brains in public school but when you aren't getting picked on for WRITING TOO LOUD, worried about wearing the top of the line clothes, or worried about who will be the next one to touch their butt and the principal not do anything then suddenly they have enough ability to reach their FULL potential! I absolutely LOATHE public schools. I wish I would have never allowed them in public school in the first place.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Well Wesley thank you for posting your opinion. You talk some good talk about "bullying" in the real world aka work environment however I see you didn't mention ANYTHING about you being a parent..... which will totally change you when you see your little girl look up at you and smile for the first time or your little boy grasp a hold of your pinkie finger and you realize "wow! This precious little life has been placed in my care to love and to protect" and you WILL at any cost. That business partner of yours... makes a comment about how cute your daughters butt looks in those jeans.... you'll knock him out. That uncle you refer to who helped you "learn" how to handle bullies decides it's time to show your son how to be a real man and puts his hand on him or teaches him something that you know darn well times have changed and it is no longer safe to do so in your kids day and age... suddenly you won't see him as your uncle rather someone trying to harm your treasure and guess what you will look back on my answer and go "dang! Yin was right! It IS all different now that I have kids."
That is unless you become one of the dead beat dad's who get a girl pregnant and leave.
Wesley Crusher
Wesley Crusher commented
So.... being a parent means raising an overly sheltered and protected child? I mean, sure all kinds of things can happen in life. Sh** happens. There's nothing you can do about it. Like I said, are you going home-job and home-date your kids too? I on the other hand believe in teaching my children how to deal with their problems. But the mentality you're displaying here is "There are crazy drunk drivers on the road, therefore I never leave the house and get my groceries and supplies delivered to my door. I get the the same as everyone that goes out in public therefore my life isn't missing anything."

Or how about "Some men cheat, therefore I'm never going to get married or have a boyfriend. Because sooner or later I'm going to get hurt". How sad is that? That's a pretty sad life to live.
Wesley Crusher
Wesley Crusher commented
My uncle taught me how to stick up for myself. By sticking up for myself, I showed others I wasn't a pushover. A few times, earning the respect of my bullies and even making a new friend. And I have lots of friends. Therefore my kids have lots of friends who are the children of my friends. They have friends around the neighborhood they make mobile apps with. Many friends, many personalities, many altercations they run into, arguments, fights, and many instances they have to come up with solutions to deal with problems. Sometimes other friends even stick up for them, imagine that? I can't protect my kids from every single obstacle that comes their way. But I can mentor them on how to face them when they're adults.

And a parent's job is to prepare their children from the real world. Not keep them hidden and have them live with you in their 20s and 30s.
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Walt O'Reagun answered

Homeschooling is best, when the parent(s) are actually involved.

As to "social interaction" ... That is a ridiculous concern, by those who don't know better (or refuse to acknowledge the truth).  Federal law REQUIRES public schools to offer the same extra-curricular activities to homeschoolers, as students enrolled in the school district.  And there's always activities outside the school, of course. 

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Wow! I must be on a very different curriculum than her. The teachers are very much in contact with me. Both girls interact with their different teachers as well plus I get to read all the interactions between them and their teachers. One of the things I really like about it, is if they are falling behind in a subject (math for an example for my oldest) her teacher let me know and then gave me all the info on how I could help her catch up, where to seek help if she is having difficulty grasping something and ways she can get extra credit. That was two weeks til the quarter ended and she caught up. They are also allowed to work their assignments on holiday breaks or weekends if they need. I just have to document their hours on the actual school day. Another thing I really like about home schooling is the freedom to actually live. For instance when my oldest daughter got into a car accident, my middle child had the freedom to take her lap top to her house and help her recover for a couple days. (She had a bunch of pets she couldn't just pack up and stay with me.) She didn't fall behind at all. When my husbands grandpa was dying back in 2016 we had to take an emergency trip out of state. I let her teacher know what was going on and we packed up the lap top. I don't know, maybe it's not for everyone but I definitely have to put in my two cents on why I enjoy homeschooling my kids.
Walt O'Reagun
Walt O'Reagun commented
Her "curriculum" is whatever she feels like doing.
She is not taking advantage of any of the home schooling resources available.

Unfortunately, that is just one example of the fact she is unfit to be a parent. But the family rallied around her, when I called DHS on her when she was fostering the kids before she adopted them. So DHS cleared her, and she continues to abandon her parenting to relatives who are incapable of even taking care of themselves.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Wow! That is a sad situation all around. 😔
I am so sorry my friend. I don't know what to say.

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