Call me Z

From your perspective, are things getting Better or Worse? Or same as ever? What things? 

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Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

My dear friend Z,

Personally I think just like a fine wine... Life gets sweeter with time. I wouldn't trade this time in my life for my partying years or my teen years. My oldest is married, someday I will be called grandma... And I can't help but to think, that will be a sweet time to. (Shhh don't tell her. I still tell her I am too young to be a grandma! Lol!)

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Ahh, a “grand” time indeed.
My granddaughter is about to turn 2, her 6 mo old brother is a gem as well. Its so much different this time.
Yin And Yang
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That is what I hear through the grapevine! Lol!!! Or in the light of things maybe I should say "grand"vine!!!! 😅
You have so much joy ahead of you with those precious babies. Awe!!!!! ☺
Speaking of babies.... my oldest is turning 21 on Saturday! We are going to go have fun getting pictures done.... Then she wants to have a Jagger bomb with mama! Lol! That was my poison back in the day. I could dance for hours with one of those things!
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I'm not sure, because my perspective is what seems to be changing with age.

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Both. Most are not as simple or as complicated as they may seem.

Maybe the above is a coping mechanism. Gone are the days where what I think or believe must be shared by others. Is it because I care not what others think of me or have I learned caring is futile. That I have only me and mine to worry and the rest of the world is too cold to be any other way for me..
when I tried to come up with ways that this life is better or worse than it was, I just kept on coming back to my perception. If I sat down and talked to a panel of different aged people would they all have the same types of concerns? When the 90 year old was 20, did he not worry about, the economy, the government, his family, his wage, and societal ills? Mental illness, war, opium? Is it the same, but with a different face? Your thoughts?
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
I love that! "Is it the same but with a different face?" That different face has wrinkles that show experience in life. Most of us go through life at different stages saying "if only I knew then what I know now." I'm going through one of those stages right now. But "if only I knew when I was 30 what I know now" would I have changed anything? That is such a hard question for it is life's experiences that write our story....
Sorry, I was flip floppy. Lol! It is something good to ponder.
Call me Z
Call me Z commented
At this point of life, I can see we cycle thru different sets of concerns as they become relevent to us in our daily lives.
When I was young, politics for example wasn’t on my radar, and the world looked simpler. But as I became newly aware of some things, and old concerns faded away, other positions formed or different ideas filled the void.
Being a parent brought on a new set of concerns previously irrelevant or unrealized, blotting out the more superficial worries that occupied my bachelorhood.
I think the world is generally consistent (and too seldom for the best), but the players and their motives change.
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Darik Majoren answered

We take a bit of time learning our environment. From the Cell phone that can now do a thousand and one things, to the TV that is now supposedly "Smart"?

So for us who are content with how things are, the learning curve for the "New and Improved" is something we understand goes hand in hand with "Built in Obsoleteness". We simply get tired of having to learn what now activates the turn signal in the new car we just purchased . . . Or why the car now has to alert us because our car is veering out of lane or brakes applied simply because we weren't paying attention to how close we were to the car in front of us . . .

Technology advances and for the most part, we should follow.

As far as government goes . . . "We the People" Let this happen . . . Not over night, not over the last two terms in office . . . But slowly over decades. We were lazy and didn't stay vigilant. 4 or even 8 years is NOT enough to do real change, but apparently 4 is all you need to do real damage . . . The nation needs a revolution . . . Nothing short of that will invoke actual "Good" change.

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So I’m getting a sense that the good is carrying some baggage and the bad is at least tolerable. Not an unreasonable view. Don’t want to get too uppity about trifles.

As far as your point on govt, I agree, though in my current life of contentedness, I am watching the political circus as a fly on the wall.
I came to see how relatively little any of these machinations will affect me directly, though if President Caligula gets his way, Im getting a fat tax break.
Darik Majoren
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Sorry Thomas, I didn't mean to paint with so broad a brush. ;)
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Don, I am wondering what new additional "Witch Hunts" will arise given our "now" zealous ambition to stamp out ANY POSSIBLE sexual misconduct . . . especially if a penis is attached to the accused.
While I am not saying the accused are not guilty, I think the precedence for an all out war against the slightest "hint" of flirting will result in a career ending walk to HR.
The Harbinger's Writing is being etched on the social "Wall" as we speak.
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Tom Jackson answered

Better---Technology in general---from increased convenience and capability in general to specific advancements in medicine and dentistry that make dealing with the general problem of growing older less problematic.

Worse---the ability of the electorate to isolate and understand the qualities---and earmarks thereof---essential to electing quality representatives to assure the advance of American values.

Same---my journey to understand reality in a way that makes sense to me and has been personally rewarding in so many unanticipated ways.  (Classified as "same" only because it seems in retrospect that I stumbled upon my way of approaching reality early on, and it seems to have been one of the best ways to do so.)

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Fine points all.
I too find value in the advancements newly available as I approach my dotage. We are living in remarkable times.
As for the second point, individuals are generally reasonable, but PEOPLE are stupid. I am of the mind that this quality is becoming all too dominant in our society, compounded by distracted apathy.
It would be nice if such journeys toward reality were an imperative with more people, than whatever the course of social evolution presents at this moment,
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PJ Stein answered

I think some things are better and others are worse. I also think somethings that have been going on for a long time with little to no notice are coming to light. As much as social media has corrupted some peoples social skills, it has also brought to light other people's indiscretions. I think there is some sort of balance. It is just the world is changing so fast these days, it is sometimes hard to keep up with the goid and the bad.

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Agreed.
Information saturation.

I think there is a lot to be said about where we place our priorities, and in general, I find people don’t give enough consideration to what should be important and what should not be.
This, to me, is worsening.

That said, the availability of information, as a tool for our advancement, is clearly better than ever.
Yin And Yang
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I was just thinking about that today... the "world" is at my fingertips with just a click of a mouse. I like learning new things. I remember the days where you had to go to a library and look things up in books. I wonder if I would have been "smarter" had I had a mouse back then or would I be "dumber?"

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