I was divorced after a 15 year marriage. Nothing could have saved that marriage. Here's her wedding pic:
Those who have been married awhile (or was married awhile) Did you ever come close to divorce? What saved your marriage?
Yes, a few times.
I learned that I am the heart of this family, I set the tone. What I put out, I'll get back. If I'm rolling positive so will everyone else.
Communication is everything.
Forgiveness is something that must be done over and over.
Never argue when one is hungry or after 10 pm.
Never bring up the past and wake up every day wondering what one thing I can do to make his day better. He does the same.