what questions should I ask my movers before my move?

I consider myself just a bit of an expert in this field! HAHA

Take a look at this article I found using a Google search and see if it might satisfy your request;

https://www.easymovesbham.com/2017/09/13/questions-ask-movers-birmingham-al/

I would ask for references and really call and talk to previous customers.

" Any chance that I'll see my stuff again? "

Ask for references and call them. Phone a real state agent and see who they recommend.