Yin And Yang

Do you think misery loves company or is that a cliche?

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PJ Stein answered

Of course it does. That is why dive bars have a steady business.

But I believe joy wants company too. If you are happy don't you want to share the joy?

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Yin And Yang commented
Most definitely and great point!!! ☺
It is something I will have to ponder cuz if I am referring to misery loving company and I don't want to BE THAT company then if JOY loves company then I better be JOY so then JOY will accompany me! Misery will not want to be around the JOY! Thank you my friend!!!
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PJ Stein commented
I have a friend who would often focus on the negative. Someone gave her the book The Secret as a gift. It really liked with her. She had a rough start in life, but she has a great life now. She is financially secure. She is a newlywed and has a great husband. She changed jobs to one with better hours, and better management. She now starts her day by posting a gratitude post on her Facebook page. Many of her friends have made snide comments about it, but I love them. It also helps me start my day on a positive note. And that is where the joy is finding company.
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Yin And Yang commented
I really do like this answer! It means a lot to me! Thank you dearly. 😊
Ancient One Profile
Ancient One answered

Unfortunately it seems to be true. I will walk a mile out of my way to avoid certain people who insist on sharing their DRAMA.

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Darik Majoren answered

It is the old "Woe Is me" scenario . . .

One of the reasons people act a certain way is the attention it gets them . . . They tend to create their own drama and vampire the life out of those willing to feel sorry for them.

Chances are this is partly due to depression, and partly due to a low self esteem that was most likely reinforced by their parents or at least one parent they sought approval from. The sad part is this is how they are now "Wired"  with regards to neural pathways and the chemical composition that feeds their brains . . . This certain pattern can take a life time to undo.

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mary adam answered

I know a couple like this, I use to always come away from them feeling tired. I realised that everything they said was negative. It is emotionally draining to try and lighten a wet blanket. I realised this couple didn't want to be cheered up they wanted to make me miserable like them, I now avoid them like the plaque, emotional vampires.

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