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How do you usually react when a person cries in front of you? Whenever I cry I would like to be left alone but if I leave the person alone it will look like I don't care

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PJ Stein answered

Depends on how well I know the person. If it is someone I know well and know they need a hug, I will give them a hug. If I know they like their space, I give them their space. If it is someone I don't know, I will usually just ask if there is something I can do to help.

I don't know if you saw in the news the other day, but a lady was waiting in line in Florida for a generator. The sold the last one to the person in front of her. She just turned away and started to cry. She has a an elderly on oxygen and would need the generator to keep them alive during the hurricane. A gentleman saw her crying and gave up his generator so she could have it. When I saw this on the news I cried. 

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Skip  Gentry
Skip Gentry commented
I saw that! And then I think when the store got another one in, they gave it to the man who gave his up, free of charge. There really are tons of good people out there!
Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
Yep...
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Danae Hitch answered

I try to read their body language so I will know if I should step in and physically offer comfort and would words work better. If it's someone I don't know, I generally ask if they need any help, or if there is something I could do for them.

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