No, my wedding was thrown together in 2 weeks. I was lucky I even found a dress and remembered to order the cake.
I saw one back in February where the bride had a young daughter the groom was adopting. She was so happy to finally have a daddy. So they had her be part of the ceremony. When it came time to "light the unity candle" or "unite the sands together" symbolically.... They let her have a color of sand to pour in with the husband and wife symbolizing the beauty of a family united. It was very beautiful to see.