Yin And Yang

My daughter got her drivers license today! Did it seem like every driver was suddenly an idiot now that your baby was driving out there with them?

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Ancient Hippy Profile
Ancient Hippy answered

I wanted to make every kid of mine wear a helmet.

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

I don't have any biological children and my step-daughter learned to drive while living half a continent away. (But I did teach her to drive a stick shift.) I have noticed for a long time that there are a lot of idiot drivers, and it seems to be getting worse.

Toni Pauze Profile
Toni Pauze answered

I wanted to hold my breath until they came back. Of course I couldn't do that, but I was a nervous wreck for a long time.

dragonfly forty-six Profile

Not any more than any other day.

I did however have a weird feeling about sharing the road with them. That feeling was hit home the first time I happened upon him out and about. He didn't even see me. He was too busy enjoying the freedom.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
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I am crying already! Thank you my friend!
dragonfly forty-six
Congrats to you and your dolly. Tears of joy or fear my friend?
Both? That's okay. We wouldn't be a mamas if we didn't do that sometimes. Hugs
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
I keep having flashbacks of her first day of kindergarten..... she said "bye mama" and was off to her class room never looking back at me. She has always been one that was excited to take on the next chapter in her life.
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Mountain Man answered

Most other drivers don't have the patience for new drivers, which does make them idiots. To be honest, when my daughter first started driving, I feared for everyone's safety. Nowadays, I'd rather be in the passenger seat with her driving compared to my sons.

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Darik Majoren answered

YES . . .

It is like you getting a particular car, and all of a sudden you notice there is a LOT of this particular type of car out there . . .

You are focused on your babies safety on the road, so now all of sudden those idiot drivers that were part of the background white-noise of every day commutes are front and center . . . They are out to cause harm. I found myself beeping my horn at drivers running red lights or not stopping at stops signs and yelling "My son could be coming through this intersection you idiot!"

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Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch commented
HA! I'm glad I'm not the only that has thought this!
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Oh thank YOU I am normal!!!!!!!!! Oh I have wondered if I was the worst person on the planet for some of the things I think! It reminds me of the ride home from the hospital after having each child.... there is an extra sense of awareness! (I was running an errand when I got the news she passed her test and was waiting at home for us. I was first in line at a red light. I looked in my side mirror and here comes the driver behind me, like his foot slipped off the brake pedal and he didn't notice because he had his head down fidgeting with something under the steering wheel or dash or his lap. I began to pull forward into the cross walk because he was not stopping. By the time he realized he was moving he seriously thought he hit me, he was THAT close! 23 years I have had my license and that has never happened to me.....)
Ancient One Profile
Ancient One answered

Defensive driving is the key. It took some effort but I managed to teach all my children how to drive defensively. Regardless even if they had a driver's license untill thiey passed my test I would not let them drive alone. Back then my test was for them start out on a Monday morning, during rush hour, drive once around the DC Beltway them North to Baltimore and the Baltimore circle then back home. If we made it without incident and without the need to change underwear they passed.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
TOO FUNNY!!!!!!! You remind me of my husband. This was one thing he always dreamed of since she was a baby.... the day he would be able to teach her how to drive. I didn't interfere with his dream at all. (LOL) Better HIM then me in my opinion! LOLOLOL! Anyways he is a truck driver so he has special behind the wheel training for our kids. I chuckled when I asked her how many she missed and she said "mom, not one thing daddy taught me was on the test. All the instructor did was get in the car and say okay drive me around." But at least she has the knowledge for when she is out there. LOLOLOLOL!
Curiously Curious Profile

So happy for you and your daughter!  Nervous for you at the same time. My children are still young but I dread the day they're old enough to start driving. I see me trying to wrap their car in bubble wrap or something. Lol

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