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If someone insults you, can you just brush it off or move on?

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Dumb Goat Profile
Dumb Goat answered

Depends on who it is, the circumstances, and the insult.

Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

Depends on who has said it and the consequences. 

Fan Girl Profile
Fan Girl answered

It depends on who insults me. For example, at school, my friend insulted me about my acne and how I would be the perfect model for acne cream. I didn't shoot him down because he either a) didn't realize that it was a sensitive subject for me, or b) was payback for how I accidentally insulted him in the morning. But if a non-friend insulted me, I would shoot him/her down with sass and class, no matter how light the insult was.

LinNawt DaBrainz Profile

I've found it's better just to brush it off and get on with your life because all it is is words. It's only going to get to you if YOU let it. If you snap back with another insult or get physical it is only going to cause a fight more than it's worth.

Tris Fray Potter Profile

Depends on what it is and who it is from.  I have made many a nemesis by laughing in their face when they insult me.  I usually don't worry; anyone who genuinely insults me is not worth my time, and most of them have either dropped out of school, or can't get a job or traineeship and are therefore stuck at school.  Not that there's anything wrong with dropping out of school to do a traineeship, but the kids who tend to drop out at my school are not very nice.

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Darik Majoren answered

Depends upon the weight I value the person's personal Criticism.

A long time friend whom really knows me carries more weight then a stranger or even a mild acquaintance.

I am very honest about myself, so if I saw any truth to the insult I WOULD acknowledge it but that might be as far as I take it. It wouldn't control me or have an altering affect on my mood.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Pretty much.

The older you get you had  best have a pretty strong sense of your basic self that is unassailable.

(Which doesn't mean you can't change if you so desire.)

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