Why can't I see who I'm following on this site past a list of ten people or so .. or who is following me ? I don't like it and I don't think it's fair. I don't like it.

i've been complaining about that issue for along time but nothing is being done about it. 

there are 3 people following me that i can't follow back because i don't know who they are -_-

A lot of us have that same problem here. It will be addressed as soon as they have time to get it worked out. They are aware of it and it's the next thing on the list of bugs to be fixed. I'll remind them again today and tomorrow. Please be patient as these things take time. They all have regular jobs and try to fix things when they have time.